Where is your current romance right now?

You may be in one of these situations: never spoken to them, met them a few times, been in a long-term relationship, or have been apart and now reflecting. By clearly identifying your current situation, your romantic feelings become more specific. Instead of just asking 'Will this work?', ask yourself: do you want to see them, do you want reassurance, or do you want to change the way things are going? Before drawing, take a moment to write down your wish in just one sentence.

Read the love omikuji's words separately from the other person's intentions

The positive words in a love omikuji serve as clues to confirm what you truly desire. The other person's response will emerge in the conversation that follows. A cautious or reserved phrase can be interpreted as a signal to check what you currently need—whether it's conversation, time, or space. Begin by taking the emotions that surface when reading the text and treating them as your own personal hopes.

The questions change depending on whether you're in a one-sided crush, in a relationship, or considering a reunion

If it's a one-sided crush, consider how to create opportunities to talk to them. If you're in a relationship, think about how to express hopes you haven't yet shared. If you're considering a reunion, reflect on the reasons for the breakup and how things have changed now. Even with the same words like 'wait' or 'move forward,' the actions differ. Try separating your own capabilities from what the other person might need or choose.

Take the received words and turn them into small conversations

If a single phrase resonates with you, don't just hand it directly to the other person. Instead, rephrase it in your own words. For example, saying 'I haven't had a chance to talk in a while, so I'd like to take some time' can not only help you observe the outcome, but also serve as a starting point to reaffirm the relationship. Here, simply share with yourself what you truly wish for.

A THOUGHT TO KEEP

Before waiting for the future of your romance, take a moment to express your own wishes in words.

To bring your own situation to Nexa, start from this sentence

I want to interpret the omikuji's words in light of my current relationship and personal desires.

Copy it, paste it into the Nexa conversation, then add your own details.

Bring your own situation, and keep asking

Tell Nexa what’s on your mind, and explore your situation and next step through Bazi and the I Ching.

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