Recall the last exchange exactly as it happened

Separate the other person's words, your reply, and what happened afterward. Instead of saying 'I'm no longer interested,' try writing 'They replied to my invitation last week, but our next meeting has not yet been scheduled.' This distinction helps clarify the boundary between reality and assumption. Whether their tone or behavior differs during a meeting versus a message, or whether they've always maintained the same pace, these details provide valuable context for understanding their feelings.

Make your questions to the fortune-teller more specific

Behind the question 'Do you like me?' may lie deeper desires—such as wanting reassurance, knowing whether to invite them again, or not wanting to remain uncertain. When speaking with Nexa, include these desires as well. Divination can broaden your perspective on the relationship and help identify what direct questions you most want to ask.

Balance the other person's pace with your own hopes

You can think that the other person may be busy and still feel lonely yourself. You don't need to suppress your own desires just because you're trying to understand the other person. Instead, try framing your request in a way the other person can answer—such as 'I'd be happy to meet again. Would you be available for a meetup this month?' Once you receive a response, you can then consider your next move.

Hold onto your own time even when you don't receive a reply

The other person's feelings aren't expressed in a single message—they emerge from the accumulation of interactions. Therefore, it's also important to consider your own limits in patience. Choose one thing you'd like to do today, separate from the reply you're waiting for. While waiting for their answer, find a distance where you can continue living your own life.

A THOUGHT TO KEEP

Not only imagine the other person's feelings, but also express your own desires in words.

To bring your own situation to Nexa, start from this sentence

I'd like to organize and clarify the possible interpretations based on our most recent interactions, and what I can confirm about them.

Copy it, paste it into the Nexa conversation, then add your own details.

Bring your own situation, and keep asking

Tell Nexa what’s on your mind, and explore your situation and next step through Bazi and the I Ching.

Take my situation to Nexa